Push and pull method dating

09-May-2017 21:09

And obviously, when a guy with good fundamentals, attractive appearance, or high social value is perceived as a “major player,” it is very bad for him. You can do mainly push and just a little pull, like 80% push and 20% pull. b) You can get the girl to feel a deeper emotional bond with you by pulling more often than pushing.

Here’s why: If your fundamentals are good, then you will be a relatively dominant, powerful, confident, charismatic, and emotionally steadfast man.

She’ll be saying to herself, “” And of course, she’ll want to open herself up and continue connecting with you.

BTW, this is also a key technique for creating the kind of emotional connections that will get girls to fall in love with you FAST.

Any resistance they give to such a man is just token. Chances are good that when you push her further away, she will follow your lead and remain further away. The rest is history, because a gentleman never kisses and tells. There are so many possibilities to choose from, but this conversation of his has stuck in my mind for a while now: I never, ever worry about a woman’s resistance to me.

Thus, if you already have good fundamentals, and you want to get the girl you want a LOT faster, you’re better off pulling her in more frequently, than pushing her away, because the chances are good she will follow your lead. Assuming the pushes and pulls are of about equal emotional intensity, if you PULL more often than not, she might resist you at first, but then because you’re dominant, she’ll follow your lead and move closer to you emotionally and physically. Me: (throwing off her hand and looking shocked): Are you calling me a liar? If she says she is not interested and leaves, no problem. But if you have good fundamentals (body language, tonality, and basic inner game), or you’re good-looking, or you have perceived high social value, and you’re interacting with a confident and attractive woman, then you can get faster attraction and make deeper connections by doing more Pull than Push, around 80%-20% is ideal.

so I can reject her again.” When most guy think “cocky-funny,” they’re thinking this kind of cocky-funny, which is what I call, “Push Cocky-Funny.” This is my default style of cocky-funny, so I’ll give you one of my own examples.

There are others, of course, like sharing secrets and using childhood regression, but this is one of the easiest to do. And this is a KEY distinction: push cocky-funny, and pull cocky-funny. Well, the best way to illustrate what I mean is through examples. Let’s first talk about the internal mindset behind Push Cocky-Funny. helpfully lays it all out: “I’m going to play hard to get, make fun of her, be indifferent towards her, and generally bust her balls as much as possible. (Pull #2) Her: (breaking out laughing): Where are you from?

I know that she loves a guy that is so sarcastic that it makes her nervous, so I’m going to really keep the heat on…

One very effective kind of pull technique is in conjunction with screening and qualifying.

If you’re confident and cool, then every qualification is actually a pull.

so I can reject her again.” When most guy think “cocky-funny,” they’re thinking this kind of cocky-funny, which is what I call, “Push Cocky-Funny.” This is my default style of cocky-funny, so I’ll give you one of my own examples. There are others, of course, like sharing secrets and using childhood regression, but this is one of the easiest to do. And this is a KEY distinction: push cocky-funny, and pull cocky-funny. Well, the best way to illustrate what I mean is through examples. Let’s first talk about the internal mindset behind Push Cocky-Funny. helpfully lays it all out: “I’m going to play hard to get, make fun of her, be indifferent towards her, and generally bust her balls as much as possible. (Pull #2) Her: (breaking out laughing): Where are you from? I know that she loves a guy that is so sarcastic that it makes her nervous, so I’m going to really keep the heat on… One very effective kind of pull technique is in conjunction with screening and qualifying. If you’re confident and cool, then every qualification is actually a pull. If you still don’t know what good BL&T looks, sounds, and feels like, check out The Social Man on You Tube for some videos on that. It’s for guys who want to know what it’s like to live in the top 10%, or higher, of men in this world. The man has good fundamentals (good body language, tonality, tight inner game and is hence non-needy, etc.).