Get over insecurities dating

23-Jun-2016 17:47

He grabs you by the hand, starts to walk toward the stairs. He stops, slowly turning, kisses your neck, glides his lips over yours as he pulls your sweater up and over your head. The pleasurable sensations dull all because you can't let go of those damn body hang-ups. Are you one of those women who look into the mirror and hate what she sees?

He tugs at your jeans, releasing the button, caressing them down to the floor ever so slowly... Are you constantly criticizing your appearance, your shape or size? There is no shame in admitting that you can relate. And unfortunately that negative image can directly impact your sex life.

Most men want to date or be in a relationship with a confident woman; a woman who can enjoy herself, who is content with her own presence and who is not afraid to be vulnerable and let it all hang out. Give her a luxurious bath, followed by sweet smelling lotion. I guarantee he is not seeing, nor is he repulsed by, the cellulite on the back of your thighs or worrying about your less than toned abs.

The truth is, if he senses your uncertainty or your lack of confidence and you are newly in the relationship, don't be surprised if he bolts. He wants to have fun getting to know you...sift through to find out who you really are. Stand in front of that mirror and find things you love about your naked ass. There is nothing more liberating that moving your body to some killer music. If your inner vixen has been hiding, it is time to let her out to play. He's been looking at you with x-ray glasses, envisioning what you would look like without anything on since he met you. They do not dwell on those small imperfections that you can't stop staring at.

They look sophisticated, confident and comfortable in their skin – all things that can help you impress a date.

You look into his deep soulful eyes to let him know you want more without saying a word. Do you let your body hang-ups affect your intimate moments?

I met my last serious girlfriend when I was in grad school and I thought we would be together forever – seriously, I was imagining our wedding. I know I’m average in looks, but I have a lot to offer.

But things fell apart – long story, won’t rehash it here – and I find myself looking through the glass watching my peers move on into marriage and children while I’m struggling to get a second date with a single lesbian. I’ve tried just “do what I love” and not look for love. I just can’t seem to find someone who is interested.

You can feel his breath on your face, his scent envelopes your nose until your lungs are filled with his intoxicating essence.

Your vulva starts to tingle with excitement; your heart begins to beat faster as his lips firmly touch yours.

You look into his deep soulful eyes to let him know you want more without saying a word. Do you let your body hang-ups affect your intimate moments?I met my last serious girlfriend when I was in grad school and I thought we would be together forever – seriously, I was imagining our wedding. I know I’m average in looks, but I have a lot to offer.But things fell apart – long story, won’t rehash it here – and I find myself looking through the glass watching my peers move on into marriage and children while I’m struggling to get a second date with a single lesbian. I’ve tried just “do what I love” and not look for love. I just can’t seem to find someone who is interested.You can feel his breath on your face, his scent envelopes your nose until your lungs are filled with his intoxicating essence.Your vulva starts to tingle with excitement; your heart begins to beat faster as his lips firmly touch yours.Since appearance plays a role in your insecurity, here’s a few tips. There’s something about going for a haircut that makes you feel good when you walk out of the salon.